Sunday, March 2, 2008

thoughts from Linda and Rob

Have had something on our minds since writing our message last night. We referred to Beth and Danielle as "the girls" and that's been bugging us. You've never seen two stronger women.

Parents expect to deal with all aspects of their kids' lives...the good, the bad, and the ugly. Can you really expect a sister and a girlfriend to do the same? Apparently the answer is yes.

Beth and Danielle have stepped up to this challenge like you can't imagine. We watch and participate in all sorts of disturbing and stressful things, and they never waver. They are right in there helping and supporting Steve in every way that they can. We are so amazed by them.

12 comments:

ali said...

It's already Steve's birthday in Korea. Wish him a good one for me please.

Ali Olsen

Anonymous said...

Yes, Beth and Danielle have stepped up to the challenge, as has Steve in his fight. All this is largely due to their parents. It is not an accident that they are all amazing people. My sister, Laury and her husband Tim (Dani's parents) as well as Linda and Rob have defined parenthood at its best. Through all these challenges you get to look at your children with so much pride and love. Is there anything more important? What a great job you have obviously done and now your kids, as adults are defining "family" as it should be. Looking at each other for support, being able to lean on each other during this important time. It's certainly not just luck that there are so many friends reaching out to the Percha family. You are doing a great job taking care of Steve, but also taking care of each other. Looking forward to your return to Michigan!
Love you, Dani!
Aunt Cary, Uncle Paul, Alex, Arie & Sophie

Anonymous said...

Just wanted to let you know that we are thinking about you. I have a feeling that this is going to be a very positive week for Steve and family, we are praying constantly for a speedy and full recovery.

Karolyn

Anonymous said...

This is a story about our Steve
One that is yet to be believed
Who knew that a weekend out of town
Would turn his life tragically
upside down

Although I don't know Steve very
well
I was shocked to hear about the day
he fell
He told everyone he was fine
(You know how guys are all the
time)

But in the morning things were
looking bad
He must have fallen harder than
he thought he had
Thanks to the quick action of his
friend that day
We all know that Steve will be ok

He was taken to the hospital for
some tests
Things looked scarey but the
doctor knew what was best
The family got the most dreadful
call of all..
Steve is in a coma..from a terrible
fall

Best friend, pal, brother and son
They knew he was in for a really
tough run
But family and friends are by his
side
Staying with him for this very
long ride

We keep updated about Steve with
a blog
Even though his mind is still in a
fog
But with cards, prayers and long
talks with God
Steve can talk to us with a blink
and a nod

So keep the prayers coming day and
night
To help him win this terrible
fight
To see him grin and hear his
laughter
Is what this story needs...
everafter

Sheryl (I PROMISE I won't quit
my day job!!)

Anonymous said...

Steve,

Tomorrow a million birthday wishes are coming your way. From the countless number of folks who are following your progress and sharing your inspirational story, this will truly be a day to celebrate your life. Sleep well Steve. Happy Birthday nephew.

Uncle Rick

Anonymous said...

Sitting here before I have to go to work, it is now Steves birthday. Usually on a birthday we ask that person to make a wish. Today we need to switch that tradition and all of us need to make the wish for Steve to keep showing progress and get well soon.
You have been in everyones prayers and thoughts everyday and today even more.
We all love you very much Steve and are proud of the progress you have made so far, keep it up !!
Happy Birthday, love uncle dave, aunt laura, miranda and david

Anonymous said...

Our wish is that your birthday brings news that you'll be soon joining us back in Michigan, Steve! What a great day to reflect on the gift of life. Tons of birthday wishes are coming your way!!!
Tim, Laury and Jessica Stone

Anonymous said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY STEVE !!!!!!

I hope to see you real soon.

Your cousin, Ryan

Uncle Don said...

Steve,

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! I am sure you could think of 1,000 other places to be today. Keep fighting the fight young squire! We love you and will see you soon!
Much Love,
Uncle Don & Aunt Gail

Anonymous said...

Steve,
Happy Birthday to you... Happy Birthday to you...
Trust me that getting this as a typed message is much better then my singing in person! :-) I just realized that in order to type those famous words, it seems I need to singing them at the same time! With that in mind I have to tell you what is going on in the back ground right now. My dog Lola, a 4 yr old Schnauzer, has decided to piped up and sing along with me!! LOL, she has never done that before.
So, from Lola and I, we wish you a very blessed day.
Love to you Steve and to your wonderful family.
Sue

Anonymous said...

"...for truly I tell you, if you have faith the size of a mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there,' and it will move; and nothing will be impossible for you."
--Matthew 17.20

She-Ra said...

Happy Birthday Steve! I've been thinking about you daily, along with all my family members. The network of support for you in AA is ENORMOUS, and we all have faith in your progress and recovery. I think someone better construct a sign up wait-list for visiting hours when you come back to MI! Keep the progress going!

Love and a million hugs, Kyla Newman

Thank you for doing such a great job with the updates! It's really helpful and the details make a big difference for controlling emotions and anxieties.