Thursday, March 20, 2008

A Better Day - Update #26 from Rob

So here we are, me, after no sleep last night, (I did the overnight), and Lin who never sleeps anyway, and Grams, sitting and talking to our case-manager Mary. We are discussing things like, "Did Steve have any directives regarding future care" and , one of my "favorite" topics, which sub acute rehab place we would like to use (see update #25). The discussion turned to a family/doctor/social worker/ case worker meeting. We were told the meeting would be next week, and that it would be a "brutally honest" open discussion on Steve's further medical care.



We turn to go back into Steve's room and Mary stops us and says that the meeting will take place in 10 minutes.



In the meeting Lin and I with Beth on a conference call, were told the requirements that Steve would have to meet to qualify for acute rehab, (in other words-staying at the U of M Medical Center). We were given a compassionately honest assessment of where Steve is currently, based on what the Physical Medicine and Rehabilitation (PM&R) doctors have seen so far. We were also able to inform the PM&R doctor that was present, Dr. Boggess, of what Steve has already done. Dr. Boggess indicated that if he could see Steve do the things we mentioned, he would qualify for acute rehab. He gave us his pager number and suggested we write it on the dry erase board in Steve's room and page him if Steve started to exhibit these movements.



We went back to Steve's room thinking that we have already seen Steve do what is necessary, but not consistent enough to page the doctor. We dutifully wrote the pager number on the board and , since Steve was due for a bath, we went up to get lunch. We resigned ourselves to the fact that since Steve is currently still too sick to leave the ICU, we had time, and we would just keep believing in him. I left for home and Lin and Grams finished their lunch.



While we were gone, two people from Occupational Therapy came in and managed to sit Steve up on the edge of the bed. They noticed him start to track people with his left eye and look out the window. Steve squeezed his right hand and moved toes on both feet on command. They saw the pager number and called Dr. Boggess, (not an hour after the meeting), who came and verified Steve's actions.

When we got back, the pager number was erased and "ACUTE REHAB-----YEAH!" was written in its place!!!!

Hows that for positive prayers and thinking!!!

PLEASE keep them coming.

8 comments:

Uncle Don said...

Rob & All,

What GREAT NEWS!!! We know that things will continue down the right path, and a successfull outcome we'll all see.

Just remember....Prayer is the power miracles are made of!!!

Love you all!

Anonymous said...

We are so happy to hear the good news for Steve and his family. As we were reading the previous blogs, today's update came up. It is Easter week, and miracles do happen!!! We are especially proud of Danielle! Her determination, undivided attention, and dedication is sure to help speed up Steve's recovery!
Prayers are being sent your way from Illinois, The Combs Family

Anonymous said...

I'm dancing in my chair at work!!! Everyone probably thinks I'm nuts - I don't care!

Way to go Steve...stay strong and keep moving those toes!!!

Love you and see you soon.

Love, Aunt Gail

Anonymous said...

OH MY GOSH!!! What fabulous news!! Our hearts have been so heavy with the possibility that Steve may have to be moved to a less-than-desirable facility. Lots of happy tears for all of you! This really is an Easter blessing!! xxxxxxxxoooooooooooo's to all of you, Laury Stone

Anonymous said...

i went to high school with steve and graduated the same year as him. unfortunately, i barely knew him but i want to let all of you know that since the day you guys started this blog i have not missed ONE day of checking it. (most of the time i have checked it 3-4 times a day)

however i am so relieved everytime i read all of the great accomplishments that he has had. i know many people care about him and are praying for his recovery, including myself!

i want to say that i dont know ANY of his family or girlfriend but i am amazed at how positive you guys have all been throughout this tragic time. you guys are angels in my eyes and i hope you know that steve knows all that you have done and he appreciates all of it. you guys are all amazing!

thank you for updating the blog and making my day!

Anonymous said...

dear steve



I'm glad your back in Michigan i'm still wating to play beanbag.I love you


♥love david♥

Anonymous said...

AH! YAY!!!!! I'm so excited for you, Steve! Way to work it!

~<3~
Ashley

Anonymous said...

Steve,

"Yeah, Come on" as Southside Steve from the regular guys Atlanta Morning Rock show would say.....We are so happy to hear the news, and timing is everything. All the prayers are working and your determination coupled with your families dedication. We praise your family, and especially Danielle for hanging in there she just naturally feels like part of the family (kind of like I did). Maybe Steve know's its and he want's to get up and go outside...I wish we could send him some flowers. I hope someone is readding the Blog" comments to him as inspiration. Have a Happy Easter, and thank God everything worked out and Steve can stay at U of M. All our love, thoughts, and prayers are with all of you.....Love Aunt Cheryl, Uncle Rick, Alyssa, Alexis, and Ryan