Saturday, May 17, 2008

Update #64 from Rob

Hello everyone.



Steve continues to do well in Physical Therapy and his "strolls" around the room are becoming a part of every session. The fact that he can do this at all is testament to the positive thoughts and prayers being sent his way and to his own will to recover fully. His determination seems to lift the spirits of all in the room, patients and therapists alike. We hear comments like "there goes Steve again, an inspiration to us all". I sincerely do hope that his efforts serve to bolster not only Steve believing in himself, but others that watch him believing in themselves also. There is so much sorrow in that room. There are those that have little support, and have to go through therapy alone. Please take a moment and wish them best of luck too.




Steve also has made gains in speech. Lin and I thought we would shake up the routine a little by having him do the last speech therapy alone. Turns out all it took was to have Aunt Gail sit in. Steve was able to verbalize, "Hi Mom, Dad, Beth, Grandma, Aunt Gail " and of course "Hi Danielle". He also agreed with his therapist, Laura, when told what he had just done was "amazing" by repeating the word. He also learned to "air spell" and informed Laura and Aunt Gail that the team the Wings are playing is Dallas, by forming the letters with his right hand as if he was drawing them on an invisible chalkboard.


Another speech therapist worked with him Saturday and had him saying the names of the objects in the room. He verbalized items like "flashlight", etc. and was able to tell the therapist the name of his girlfriend clear enough for her to understand it. (She had never met Danielle nor knew her name).




The X-Rays of Steve's shoulders showed no concerns so further stretching and therapy should not be a problem. Glasses should be here next week.




The headaches continue but do not deter progress in therapy. There are thoughts that they may be the result of atmospheric pressure on the brain, due to the lack of the 'cushioning' of the cerebral spinal fluid (CSF) in an enclosed cranial cavity. What this means is it may be time to replace the bone flap. Lin and I have also made the doctors aware of the pain Steve has when he coughs. It appears that the bone flap may also be the cause of this as the area Steve points to when the pain occurs is on the edge of it. Whatever the decision, when you look back at what Steve has been through, this is merely a bump in the road to full recovery and has to be done at some time anyway.



On a lighter note, he no longer needs the TV remote he was given by rehab engineering...he can handle the regular remote now that his vision, strength, and coordination has improved. A definite lifestyle improvement! It also gives him access to the nurses' call button. Even though someone is always with him, we can now ask him to push the button...it's one more little step to being in control of things in his life.



Yesterday he was sitting in the recliner in his room and wrote that he was sliding down too far. Lin and her mom were there and talked about getting someone to help boost him up. Steve heard this and kicked the pillow out from under his feet, Lin held him under his arms and lifted, and he was able to push himself up and back into a more comfortable position. This may sound like a little thing, but it is really a huge improvement in his life as he loves that chair and keeping him in a comfortable position has always been a challenge!

Wishing you all the best.
Thanks,
Rob and Lin

5 comments:

Unknown said...

Keep it up Steve! I get excited every time I read about the improvements you continue to make!! You have always been an example of the importance of hard work and dedication so as exciting as all of the good news is, it is by no means a shock to those who know you. You are truly amazing.

See you soon!!

Gina

Anonymous said...

Hi there Steve! Well, things are finally coming together here in MS. Brad graduated from high school last Friday and the Ole Miss boys got home a couple of days before that. The girls are studying for finals and are done with school Wed the 21st. We read the blog and talk about you every day at the dinner table. You are with us and we are so amazed and proud of you! WE WILL come back for a visit. Miss ya buddy!
Aunt Kathie and the B.E.A.C.H. kids

Anonymous said...

Steve,

I had to write you a little note today. One of those experiences needing to be shared. Background: I entered a local small business that specializes in mailing packages, preparing to send something north in preparation of our visit this coming weekend. The young lady behind the counter, Eastern European by her accent, struck up a conversation that eventually led me to talking about you. As she finished taping the package shut, the following dialogue took place. We'll call her "Hildi" since that is what her coworker called her.

Hildi: "Is your nephew a strong young man?"
me: "yes"
Hildi: "Then I guess he will be making it difficult for all those who follow him"
me: "What do you mean?"
Hildi: "Obviously this young man, Steve I believe, has already conquered the disbelievers, has already overcome every obstacle put in his path, he has climbed to the mountaintop and shouted from the top of his lungs 'I AM STILL HERE'. What have you and I done to challenge our lives in such a way"
me: speechless

I turned, stopped, and wrote this down word for word right there in the store.

As I approached the exit Hildi called out "tell your young nephew Steve that I am praying for him and next time come in to tell he of his triumph"

I guess some of the most defining moments in life come at the most unexpected times.

I thought you might like to know that there is one additional supporter out there who simply made my day.

Uncle Rick

Anonymous said...

Uncle Rick,

You continue to put tears in my eyes. Thank you so much for sharing...Looking forward to seeing you soon!!

Love,
Danielle

Uncle Don said...

Here's a portion of Danielle's posting on March 17, just a little over two months ago:

"A little later on in the evening, I was wiping him down with a cold wash cloth and decided to rub his shoulders a bit. I can't even imagine how sore he must be after already laying there for a full month! He was looking right at me when I asked, "Steve, if this feels good and you want me to keep doing this then blink twice." He then very distinctively blinked down hard twice. I was so happy it gave me chills."

Here we are on May 19th, and I walk into Steve's room tonight, and there he is sitting in the wheel chair, READING a magazine article with his new glasses! OMG! Is God good or what? Look at how far this young man has come...from blinking to communicate yes or no, to reading!

I always find such peace in visits with Steve. Sometimes when I see him smile or gesture, I see the little boy from years ago. However, what has taken place during this journey, no boy could survive, that is when I see a young man who accepts what has been dealt, and fights to overcome the obstacles it holds.

God has heard our prayers, and has given Steve and Team Percha the will and the way!

Night to all.