Thursday, February 21, 2008

Update #2 from Beth and Danielle

Hi guys,

Danielle and I spent the night at the hospital last night, and this morning Steve's original trauma surgeon (Dr. Daza) and his intensivist (Dr. Morton) came in to talk to us about his progress. His right pupil, while still enlarged, is beginning to respond to light. His motion on his right side is better than that on his left side, due to the fact that the blood clot was compressing the right side of his brain (which controls the left side of the body). We were told a couple of days ago that the pressure on his brain also pinched off a couple of small blood vessels, causing him to suffer minor strokes in the cerebellum and thalamus. We are still not sure what effect this will have.

Danielle reports that last night when the nurse went to brush some goop off of his eye (they are putting gel in his eyes to keep his corneas hydrated) Steve noticeably shifted his head to the left. This is a good sign, say the nurses, because it indicates that he is capable of "purposeful" movement - not just reflexes. One nurse also saw him start to reach toward his throat when she began suctioning out his ventilator tubing, which is also a good sign.

FYI: We are extremely satisfied with the level of care Steve is receiving at Suburban Hospital in Bethesda. His neurosurgeon, Dr. Armanda, has been extremely patient in explaining things to us and has given us every reason to believe that Steve will have the best possible outcome, given his situation. The nurses and support staff have also been great, and have not minded that we basically have people in there with him at all hours of the night and frequently break the "TWO VISITORS ONLY" rule. His main physician, Dr. Morton, has been around a lot answering questions and has also been very patient with us.

Okay, on to what actually happened: Steve was visiting friends in D.C. on Saturday night when he ran down the steps of the Lincoln Memorial, fell, and hit his head. He apparently thought he was fine, and was able to walk back and go to sleep at a friend's house. In the morning, his friends heard him making strange noises and breathing very shallowly. They tried to rouse him, but while he was somewhat verbal at first, his condition rapidly deteriorated and he began to stiffen, at which point they called the ambulance. Steve was taken to the hospital, as mentioned in the previous entry, exhibiting "blown" pupils and extensor posturing, which is basically the lowest level one can be at neurologically. It was then discovered that he had a massive blood clot on the right side of his brain (between the dura and the skull), which was compressing his brain stem, the part of the brain that controls such essential functions as breathing, heart rate, and blood pressure.

The truth is that if it had not been for the quick reaction of his friends, Matt and Kira, we would certainly have lost him. So words cannot express how grateful we are to them: they saved his life.

More again soon,
Beth and Danielle

14 comments:

Anonymous said...

Steve and family..your in our thoughts and prayers always, we know your recovery is in someone else's hand greater than anything any of us can imagine, there is power, strengh and healing in prayer, there are lot's of Georgians in your corner, your strong and young, and your going to get through this for yourself as well your family, and friends...We love you and come back to us soon, keep showing us signs that your on the way to making a complete recovery...We love you and miss you...Cheryl (Aunt), uncle Rick, Alyssa, Alexis and Ryan Perkins

Uncle Don said...

Thank you Beth and Danielle for keeping everyone posted on the happenings with Steve. Thank you Uncle Rick for creating this blog for folks to view and enter any comments. Steve has many friends who need this tool so they can rest knowing Steve is being taken care of by the best. Thank you Matt & Kira for recognizing that something was not right, and contacting 911. We are truly indebited to you both.

I have searched the web for a fitting prayer to post. Something for healing or suffering. I did not find one that truly fit the situation or Steve. So if I may, I would like to share one of my own.

Gracious Lord, may your Mercy, Peace, and Grace be with our Steve. Please place your healing hands upon this shining light, and embrace him in your loving arms. May your Mother Mary, who knows like no one else what it is to see their child suffer, give Steve's parents peace that her son, our Lord, will watch over them all during this journey, their own personal Lent. May they be blessed at the end of this journey with the rebirth of their son, Steve. Amen.

Dotite said...

Danielle and Beth thank you so much for the detailed update on Steve's progress. I am very glad to hear that you are satisfied with the level of care he is receiving. I want to let you know Steve has continuously been in our thoughts and we have an entire network of people from umich and outside praying for Steve and your family. Please let us know when Steve is at a point where he is ok to receive more visitors.
Love and support,
Dottie

Anna Dummer said...

Beth and Danielle, thank you so much for taking the time to keep everyone updated. I can't imagine what it's like having to go through what you're going through and then write about it so everyone can guess what it's like. Matt and Kira, like Beth and Danielle said, thank you so much for realizing he needed help and knowing to take Steve to the hospital. Mary Ann, Linda, and Rob (and Steve, Beth, and Danielle) know that I'm sure praying for all of you.

Anna Dummer said...

Beth and Danielle, thank you so much for taking the time to keep everyone updated. I can't imagine what it's like having to go through what you're going through and then write about it so everyone can guess what it's like. Matt and Kira, like Beth and Danielle said, thank you so much for realizing he needed help and knowing to take Steve to the hospital. Mary Ann, Linda, and Rob (and Steve, Beth, and Danielle) know that I'm sure praying for all of you.

Anonymous said...

To Steve and the entire Percha Family,

Steve and I go back to the high school days of good old Walled Lake Central Varsity golf. My prayers are with you all as Steve continues to fight and recover. Please give me a call if there is anything I can do to help. I currently live in Frederick, MD which is about 45 minutes north of Bethesda and is only a short drive away. I don't want to burden the family with an unexpected visit, but if you feel that could help, please do not hesitate to call me.

Tony Rishell
248-770-2533

Anonymous said...

Steve, Danielle, and family:

You have been in our thoughts and prayers everyday since we found out early Monday. It is our prayer that not only will Steve come out of his coma, but that he will have a quick and FULL recovery. All things are possible through Christ and we believe He is the healer of all.

With much love and support,

Brian Wolak & Katie Watson

Anonymous said...

“In the absence of wake-up calls, many of us never really confront the critical issues of life.” –Stephen Covey


In the blink of an eye, your life could change dramatically. However, we do not dwell on the thought of this “blink” and what might happen that could make a huge impact on our lives and on those in our lives. We assume that when we wake up in the morning, it is just another day and we will go about our normal routine. Come night time, we will then go to bed to recharge our bodies only to wake up to the exact same schedule the following day. It is this reoccurring, and to some people, vicious cycle that we call “life.” And on occasion, certain events, planned or unplanned, can make one day radically different from all of the others. These events are what make us come to a standstill and realize that this game of life is full of unstoppable, unexpected actions. Whether they are positive or negative, we cannot control them. They are planned into our lives long before we know it and no matter how hard we try, certain instances cannot be stopped. For the negative instances, we may question the infamous saying “everything happens for a reason” (for those who believe that quote) and usually anger builds out of it. We ask “why,” why me, or why them, what made one deserve such a thing? To our disadvantage, we may never know “why.” We have to keep our composure and do the only thing possible, stay strong and hope for the very best outcome. We get so caught up in this busy, repulsive, selfish world that we forget about those in our lives that make our world go around. Without the people that cause the positive impacts in our lives, we would be lonely and unhappy. We would not have anyone to turn to when something goes wrong and you just need someone to understand your feelings. And if by chance, you blink your eye and something unexpected happens to a loved one, will they know how much they mean to you? How much you care about them and appreciate their life as much as they do yours? Don’t forget to tell your friends and family how much you care about them as often as you can. They helped make YOU who YOU are today and vice versa. Hug them and remind them how special and important they are. Everybody in this world needs love whether they admit it or not. You never know when your life could a take a turn for the worst, so live your life as if there were no tomorrow and live it with those that you love. Life is only what YOU make of it.

*Recently, a very special person that I know was sent into a coma. He is a VERY close friend of my boyfriend’s and even though I do not know him nearly as well as my boyfriend does, I know that he has a lot of people that care about him so, so, SO much. Just to see how this unfortunate event has taken effect on so many of those close to him has made me realize how precious life really is, especially Steve’s. And considering how young he is and how much life he has ahead of him, this is so heartbreaking. I know him well enough to know that he is a very strong individual and can pull through in this situation.
Please keep Steve in your prayers; he deserves the wonderful life that is planned for him. As well as his family and loved ones, I cannot imagine how hard this is for them; he is such an amazing person. My heart goes out to each and every one of them. God Bless.

Uncle Don said...

All,

Please note the comment that quotes Stephen Covey. It is so moving. Young lady, should you visit this page again, please leave your name. You have touched me with your words. God Bless You, and thank you for sharing.

Rachael Maciasz said...

Dear Perchas,

Our thought and prayers are with you guys. We are impressed with your strength through this and are confident that Steve is receiving the most possible amount of love and care. we're thinking of you.

Much love,
The Maciasz Family

Anonymous said...

Linda, Rob and Beth and family.........I am still in shock by everything that has happened.......I am constantly thinking about all of you......believe in miracles!!!!!

Hetty

Uncle Don said...

God our Father, hear our prayers, hears us God the Son, Holy Spirit hear our prayers, have Mercy on your people Lord.

Unknown said...

Mr. and Mrs. Percha, Danielle, and Beth,

Thank you so much for taking the time to give us all updates about Steve, my heart goes out to you all. Steve has an enormous amount of close friends who love and miss him and are coming together to pray for his full recovery. Steve is extremely strong and deeply cares about his friends and family, which is why we know he can pull through this. Know that you all are always in our thoughts and prayers and that we love you Steve...Jess, Jeff, Mike, Brent, Austin, Mo, Lindsey, Lauren, and Jen

Anonymous said...

Happy birthday Steven, we are all praying that today is the day. Been thinking about you, Christopher Niehaus