Hello everyone. Steve was pretty sleepy today. They've done so many things (feeding tube, picc line, trach, taking him off the vent for long periods of time, etc) to him during the past few days that he seems worn out. Does a lot of coughing/choking which they say is a good sign, but tiring for him and un-nerving for us! He has his left eye open part of the way and tries to follow voices...his right eye is still closed for the most part. Can do a little more squeezing with his right hand - we're hoping to some day soon use that as a means of communicating with him.
Life in the ICU is a rollercoaster of emotions. Today the trauma surgeon stopped by to check on him and stated that he looked good and they wouldn't do another CT scan unless something was wrong. About 20 minutes later the neurology PA stopped by to tell us that they had scheduled a CT scan. You can imagine the thoughts that ran through our minds. Thankfully, the scan showed no more swelling and a correctly positioned brain midline. Because of these results, the doctors were able to stop giving him Mannitol, which pulls fluids out of damaged tissue. They'll do another scan in the morning to make sure no more problems develop.
The physical therapist brought us a boot that he wears to keep his feet in the proper position, and showed us some range of motion exercises to do with him. It's nice to have something positive and helpful like that to focus on. We actually have become active participants in his care, which is a good feeling for all of us.
We are still waiting to hear about moving to Michigan. We know doctors here have spoken with doctors there...just haven't received details yet.
Yesterday we moved into a house in Reston, Virginia, and are living with Agnes, who is a cousin of Linda's Aunt Dianna. We have space, washer and dryer, the use of a computer, and a kitchen. Two of us spend every night at the hospital, but the others will be staying here. Such a blessing!
I know we keep saying this, but we are so thankful to every one of you for the love, support, thoughts, and prayers. Please keep them coming.
Love,
Linda and Rob
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Hello Perchas,
I've been keeping a close eye on this site (thank you so much for keeping it updated) and I'm so glad to hear of Steve's recent improvements. I'm sending all of my positive energy from the far east. May the good news continue.
Ali Olsen
Hi Everyone,
Please tell Steve I can't wait to run into the waves at Lake Michigan with him again, and I know we will!!! Because only tough guys like us can take that cold water!!! Come home soon Steve. Love your cousin, Cody
Hello to all,
I also have been checking daily to read any new, positive gains. It seems like all the years between us have somehow bridged together and I can feel your emotions and hope through your emails. Many OPE memories have flooded my thoughts, as I'm sure you have remembered daily precious times before that phone call. You seem so close, even though far away. Thanks for keeping up the postings!
I can "see and feel" your determination to do anything that will help. I know that is a good thing.
I hope Steve continues to heal and will be back in Michigan soon.
Hugs and prayers continue.
Linda Moore
Good Morning Percha family,
Keep the faith and keep up the strength. You all already know how we all feel about you during this journey. Now something for the countless number of supporters who read your words with anticipation and hope. Today, Feb 29th, we are all given an extra day of life. An extra day to share with friends and family, an extra day to reach for our dreams and challenge our shortcomings. An extra day to enjoy life. So, on this day, as we go about our routines, take a moment, choose your method, and let Steve know that we are here. Regardless of your faith, regardless of your comfort of public display, regardless of anything that takes you out of your comfort zone, this day is for Steve. The words that folks have shared have truly been inspirational and touching. Let today be the day that everyone you meet knows the story and by the end of this extra day of life Steve's army of supporters will provide all the strength he needs to face the challenges ahead. Because of one young man's actions Steve was given an extra day of life on February 17th. That day has turned to 13. Pick a time. Maybe noon, maybe 3:13 PM this afternoon, whatever, just let Steve know that you are here for him.
"The man who removes a mountain begins by carrying away small stones"
Steve,
Friends are the family you get to pick. I must tell you that you have chosen well! The display of affection these comments have shown, not too mention Matt and his gal. I was impressed with Matt when you guys moved some furniture for Aunt Gail and I. You are good judge of character.
Monday is your birthday, and I couldn't think of a better way to celebrate than getting you home! I am optimistic on the little things that are happening each day, and eventhough this will be a long haul, if anyone can do it, you can! You have a strong support group around you, and prayers are being said from everywhere you can think of.
God Bless you and everyone there!
Uncle Don & Aunt Gail
Hi Everyone,
I haven't seen Steve since high school, but I went to school with him since Elementary and we lived in the same neighborhood. I heard about the news through Kelsey Cross online and I let other classmates of his know because the more positive energy and prayers the better, right? I truly am thankful for this site and your selflessness though this difficult time to keep everyone informed about Steve's miraculous progress. This kind of news really sobers a person up and makes you appreciate all the small, seemingly insignificant things in life. Life is precious and it is amazing the oceans he crosses everyday on the road to recovery. I hope to see Steve at our 10 year high school reunion(it's closer than we think)!! You really know your life has been a success when you see all the people supporting you in a tragic time such as this is for Steve. Here's to a full recovery! Let's keep the great news coming!
Hi Everyone,
I haven't seen Steve since high school, but I went to school with him since Elementary and we lived in the same neighborhood. I heard about the news through Kelsey Cross online and I let other classmates of his know because the more positive energy and prayers the better, right? I truly am thankful for this site and your selflessness though this difficult time to keep everyone informed about Steve's miraculous progress. This kind of news really sobers a person up and makes you appreciate all the small, seemingly insignificant things in life. Life is precious and it is amazing the oceans he crosses everyday on the road to recovery. I hope to see Steve at our 10 year high school reunion(it's closer than we think)!! You really know your life has been a success when you see all the people supporting you in a tragic time such as this is for Steve. Here's to a full recovery! Let's keep the great news coming!
*Megan Kendall
Hello, Perchas -
I've been watching your blog since Kendra told me about it a couple of days ago. Steve is in my thoughts and wishes for a continued speedy and full recovery. Your family's strength and love is so apparent in the entries, and it is inspirational.
With prayers for only the best news, Wendy Shepherd (former neighbor)
Prayers are lifted daily for you Steve and your family. God can do all things!!!!!!!!!!
Wow! Can't begin to express how delighted we are to hear of all the progress Steve is making. Way To Go! You all continue to be in our thoughts and prayers daily. We have several TC prayer groups praying for Steve's recovery and for peace and strength for all. Hope you can feel the LOVE coming from northern MI. Thanks so much for keeping the blog up to date. Looking forward to each day's miracle...Love, Deb and Dale
Aunt Cheryl says...
Every morning the kids are sleepy just like you .... but soon you will wake just like they do everyday. I go into their rooms and hug and kiss them and say "its wakey, wakey time", so it's time to get up when your ready too, just my little Alexis..she does things at her own pace. Alyssa and Ryan jump out of bed, and soon you will be able to do that again. All our love and prayers, Uncle Rick, Aunt Cheryl, Ryan, Alyssa, and Alexis
Hey everyone,
I've been trying to follow this site as much as possible and im happy Steven is doing better. Our prayers are out to all of yall.
Love, Christopher Niehaus
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